Why You Can Succeed?

What is success? Success is not a great God like feature that only special among us can achieve it. It is something that truly exists in us. But it is an undeniable truth that every person cannot be successful. Success just doesn't take your hard work to become a success, it takes sickening work of effort, courage to face failures, dedication, commitment and self believe. And in this process of becoming successful many people give up, quit and lose hope. They start doubting themselves that they are not capable and smart enough for what the opted to achieve. Maybe it’s out of their reach. And people who stay firm, believe themselves, face the storms of unending difficulties emerges becoming something that people never even imagined about him. This all depends on self-belief. One must find a solid reason to become successful. If you don’t have believe in you, you don’t trust yourself then there is no reason for you to be successful. Success only comes to those who strives for it. You can’t become a success if you don’t have clear thoughts. You have to be specific about what you want to achieve, you cannot achieve it having general thoughts. For example, Les Brown the motivational speaker was labeled as mentally retarded person in his school life, but he knew what he has to become. Now when you look at him, he had his own talk show and is known among the most influential motivational speaker around the world.  Anyone can be successful if he believes himself, have clear goals and be dedicated and committed and courageous enough to accept failures and giving the time importance.

I can be successful because I know who I am I know what I believe and that’s all I need to know. I believe in me; no matter what people say what they think there is no reason for me to doubt myself. I remember when I was a kid I was treated as an ignored person in my circles. At that time, I had no believe in me because all of them made me feel that I am a dull person with nothing to do in life. As a matter of fact, I really tore me apart. When you are bombarded with the bullets of criticism and critically ignored by all the humans on planet earth, you feel like homeless person. There was only and only my home where I felt comfortable. I was started to feel uncomfortable between my colleagues because they were critical to me. I spent my most of the time at home watching TV and surfing internet. I mostly watch WWE on television. And you may find it weird but the point where I started building my confidence was by WWE. I learn very much from WWE. I build my self-esteem in the sense that when a superstar of WWE came in the ring and talk to the arena he doesn’t care about the thousands people sitting in the ring and watching him. He just has to make his point with confidence.  Many people hoot him, some cheer him, he doesn’t give a damn. And when the same person does something good the whole arena starts to cheer him. This is where I got motivation to self believe. I thought that why I should care about people and what they think about me. I have my own personality and my own attitude. I started to keep on telling me that these people are blinded. They have no vision no motivation and it was like that. They all were living their life on auto pilot. My parents are the real support for me. They have always motivated me and trusted me and believe me I have never broke their trust ever. I have always wanted to give my parents such kind of life which they have never expected, and this is the thing which makes me to believe in me. Because I am the one who will make it happen. This creates a reason for me to be successful. Because if I don’t become successful how I can suppose that I will be able to give my family that kind of life that I have imagined for them. I believe in my skills and trust on my talent and this is the thing that I need the most. I a person lacks these he cannot go further. If someone don’t have believe in himself how he will face the tough world. Ultimately he will break and quit. Today I can talk to people eye to eye with solid confidence. This is not gifted I have developed in on my own.

I am like you and everyone who wants to do something in life, achieve something in life. Have some goals and dreams. But how many of everyone are specific and concise about what they want in life. That’s the point where majority of dreamer stuck. They are not specific about what they want in life. They just imagine something and think that is the thing what they were looking for. They don’t even know how to start in pursuing the goal. You have to specific about your demand. For example; “I want some money, fine here’s a dollar now get out”. In this example the concept of vague arguments and thoughts is clearly shown. But this is not the case with everyone. Every person is different from other and excels from others. In my case I have travelled from vagueness to exactness. I started daydreaming when I was in matric level. There was a segment in our school where were taught to write diligently. It was always fun segment in our school. I started to drawing my name in a building shape imagining that one day I will build a building like this. I got support to my Idea when I was in intermediate. There was a friend with me named “Usman” he supported my idea and actually he added his own thoughts in my ideas. He was really supporting. I spent some very rich time with him. As the time passes maturity in thoughts and clarity in mind started taking place. I started made myself to see the big picture and began to bear in mind that “think global not local”. Be clear and precise in thoughts and what you want from life. I started to list out my targets and dreams on paper and draw a roadmap which will lead me towards them. But it’s not that simple as it seems. Life is a roller coaster ride with some huge bumps in roadway and some unexpected hurdles which could change the entire life path. I can’t set my targets and goals just by seeing one side of the coin. I have to think like optimistic not pessimistic.  While thinking about my goals I tried to make it simple but yet attractive enough to keep me motivating and awake. I have tried much to avoid the obscureness in my goals. If you can imagine yourself living your dream you can achieve your dream. Only some people can see themselves living their future, these are visionary people and I list myself among these people because I have these traits and features which puts me among them.

Benchmarking your goals was just the first step in achieving your goals. Many people able to do that setting impressive and most amazing goals which seems doable standing far away from them. Even if you had made the road map of pursuing your ambition what is the possibility that you will stay committed and firm in the roadway. Do you have the inside hunger? How much committed are you towards your dreams. Can you stay strong in the most adverse conditions while getting your dreams? Will Smith (Hollywood actor and motivator) once said “this is what I believe and I’m willing to die for it, period”. If your goals are the reason that you are alive then this is something special. Many people break and quit in the middle of the way because either they have fear of what is going to happen next or they are not committed enough to stay and face the storm of truck loaded hardships. And persons who stays firm, strong and humble always get what he demanded for life. Anthony Robins (One of the best motivational speaker) once said that “life will pay you whatever you ask for it”. But only if you are humble, patient and dedicated towards your dream. There are people who will tell you that you are not made for this, you are not that material and if you believe on them you are just ruined. That person happens to be me. I have meet very few people who have appreciated and appraised me and my ideas. Anyone from everyone that I have discussed my dream either they laughed or criticized me. Then I ask myself a question, should I really care about what they think? And somewhere inside me answer comes, look at them as your customers who are unhappy with your service not by your product. This boosted my confidence and commitment. I am committed, I am dedicated, and I am humble human. I know it. According to Confucious (Chinese novelist, teacher) “he who says he can and he who says he can’t they both are usually correct”. I have faced adverse conditions in life, I had beard extreme financial difficulties, I have tackled bundle of failures loses and disappointments but there was one thing that kept me motivating and made me stand in the storms. That was my self-commitment and commitment to my goals. When I look at my family and look at my goals I see a solid reason to why make my dreams alive. My dreams are the reasons of my struggle, and hard work. There is no way I will out my life on autopilot. I believe in reality and reality is real struggle. Many people quit and lose hope but I am not like that, hardships, failures tough conditions I have faced them earlier and I will face them in future. There is no fear in me of being getting failed. I have so much times but I stood up again and again. I am gifted this life and this life won’t come again. I want to make it special and meaningful. I will face the fear. There is no way I quit, I will succeed ultimately.

Time is everything. Life is short and unexpected not know can happen when. Giving time importance, respect and valuing it is the most important thing in success. Time is intangible and if you see something deep it is an asset for you actually not for you but for everyone. But not everyone respects and values it. Only those who has something to do in life and think that this time will never come again cash it as much as you can, that person really makes out much of time. Others just keep on sleeping and at the end of the day complain with themselves about they should have done something. Now only regrets come in hand. I am little bit lazy but there is nothing like that I don’t value my time. I follow the rule of time value of money replacing money with ambitions. Setting up everything but not measuring and settling time limits is a pretty foolish thing to do. Like for everyone time is money for me. I am not a Rothschild that I don’t have to care about time. Time is a resource and asset for me which I cannot save or store for latter time. Everyone has the same amount of time each and every day 24hrs but only those who make it count life has a special meaning for them. There is one common trade among successful people that they are self-disciplined and they never compromise on their discipline and I believe that I own that trait. Also there is a “crowd out” principle in time and personal management. It simply says that, if you spend all of your time doing highly productive tasks, by the end of the day you will have you will have “crowded out” all the unproductive activities that might have distracted you from your real work. In my case, I follow that principle as much as I can.  Even in my personal life I prefer time management and always try to work with discipline. Preferring more important tasks first and doing them diligently is my first priority. I always make sure that I never compromise on my discipline. More, planning is another factor in my time management. Some people plan but without any deadlines and time limits. They keep on telling themselves today is not good day will catch up tomorrow. And this habit is very common among unsuccessful people. And it clearly depicts that they are not serious about what they have asked for. Me in this case is very strict to what I have opted to do and how to do. I always make sure that I will make this happen in the given time span.  I respect my time and value my time, as a result time gives me success. It’s like tit for tat or I should say it is Newton’s 3^rd law of motion which states “every action has an equal and opposite reaction”. If I give value to something, then as a return it will give me something too. That’s why I work with time and get success.

 Now summarizing this essay this has been clearly depicted and properly defined that I have the skills, talent, traits and determination to what it takes to be a successful person. I am here not claiming that I have every single attribute of successful person, no one is complete and perfect. The only reason that separates me from the crowd is my own qualities that only I own. My will power and determination are the factors which makes me feel special. Above here I have proved and hopefully satisfied you by giving the reasons why I can succeed. We are not born successful, one must have the courage, determination and strength to overcome all the obstacles put in their path on the road of success. I have the courage the face failure, to accept failure and to stand up again. It’s not easy after failing and getting back. Your back begins to crack but with the desire and commitment and when you think about your future and family you spontaneously get stand up and comes again with even more determination and more preparation. Facing the fear and winning over it is in my DNA and I have proved it. May be I lack somewhere but that lapse doesn't make me weak. Again I repeat that I am living this life only one time so why not make this life suck impressive and worth that it becomes inspiration and guide for others.

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Author: Zaryab Khan.